If life is a stage, who are you giving air time to most of the time? There are many voices in our heads, are you listening to all or just one of them? How was the experience? Empowering or Disempowering?
All of us have a self-sabotaging inner voice or voices that hold us back. Preserving the status quo is part of this Saboteur's job. When change is about to happen, the Saboteur wakes up. The bigger the dream/change, the more hefty the Saboteur you will be wrestling with.
As a coach, I'm alert to warning signs that my client’s Saboteur may have taken control of the stage. When the Saboteur surface, I will be direct (and sometimes tough) in guiding my client to surface it, personify it and shut it up so other voices can come in. Once it becomes really clear to my client that the Saboteur is NOT one and the same, they will decide who’s going to be boss.
Really happy for Patricia. Not only she found out what 'Jane' was up to all her life, she decided to be the boss! She decided to stand firmly on what she deeply value. When she is grounded, her radiance becomes too bright for the Saboteur. She now sees clearly the separation between her true self and the Saboteur's story. Her journey continues and I'll be there by her side.
p/s: Jimmy is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC). Co-Active Professional Coach Training is widely recognized as the most rigorous professional coach training and certification program in the industry. As the largest and most established in-person professional coach training organization in the world, CTI has trained over 62,000 coaches, including employees in more than a third of the Fortune 100 companies. Jimmy's passion for Coaching lies in the magical and transformational self-discovery process. Everyone is Naturally Creative, Resourceful and Whole. If you want to Fundamentally Change & Create a New Future Experience, Talk to him.
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